Sunday, May 1, 2011

Happiness

These days I realized that being happy has nothing to do with what happens around us. May sound strange but its true. Happiness is a virtue that we all need to find within us. From last two three days I am having a nice feeling, a happy feeling. This is really odd for me because there is no reason for me to be happy. Still I feel calm, free, relaxed.

Despite the tensions, twitches and sleepless nights that I spend working, I am happy. Happy for no reasons. This is a feeling that I would always love to have. Small actions like smiling back to people, waiving at any friendly appearance, saying hello to friends… maybe even strangers. Trust me, this helps. We don’t need any reasons to be happy. There is no need to wait for happy situations to occur. We don’t need to delay the joy. Its right here, right within us. Find it.

Live the life as it is meant to be. Life is not meant to be lived in stress and worries and reflecting them on the people that you meet. Life is about sharing, its about trying to bring a smile to the faces. And if you try you will know that smile has a great inductive power.

Its your life, don’t just pass through it … LIVE IT.

Monday, January 17, 2011

Emotional twitches

Why do people opt to be away even if they can be close? Happened twice to me in this small life span. May be something better is in store for me or just that those people found me disagreeable over some matters of life. Something somewhere is missing… maybe a small link which I have never understood. I would like someone to point that out to me.
Another bad aspect of such behavior is that we start underestimating our self over some matters of life. Some introverts like me think it better to leave the relations for the socially active people and move to the dark corners of technology or some research work. Well, research is good but not at the cost of one’s social life. Autism is always an excuse for such causes. I don’t want to go that way.
Trying experimentation with oneself can help to some extent. Lets see to what extent can this help me. Hope that this ends soon.

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