Getting married?

Have you ever thought that is marrying necessary for a human being? Why do people have to get married when one can even have babies without getting into the relation? Having regular sexual satisfaction also cannot be a reason for this type of relation. Then what thought makes a man to marry a women and have her for whole of his life? The answer lies in nature’s mystery.

Its all a sort of preprogrammed in human brain. Getting to raw thinking what all animals follow is also followed by humans. Being a social animal, human tries to keep along him the things that can help him, no matter what. This is a sort of a give and take relationship where expectations are born. Now one might argue the relation between the above said nature of man with the necessity of marriage. The things are much complicated than they seem to be. To understand the aspects of human nature we need to get elevated from the regular plain of vision and view the things as a whole balanced system. Failure to see any aspect can drag you to some very wrong conclusions.

Marrying to someone is a primary step to express the care for someone. Till we are a kid and in our 20’s we live for ourselves without thinking for the world. The feeling of being superior is one of the prime feelings what a human can feel. This comes when we either kill something to prove our might. But why would someone spend lots of energy on unnecessary things? Well, we have another way out. Try to shelter some weak species and feel great. The another thing that comes into light is the need of progeny to keep this human race alive. Parental care being one of the stimuli from the subconscious brain both the parents stay together. The female and the new born being vulnerable species are totally on the power of man for their protection. Man in return gets his feeling of being important and superior.

Well the idea for a family I explained above is the central dogma since stone age. Today we have grown far more socialized and civilized. Failure to understand the prime and important things in life can tremble all the other things that depend on the dogma. This is similar to thing that people forget about the central beam structure of the building while living inside it.

The interdependence is the property that keeps this world balanced and we are just an element that is needed to maintain that balance.