Being Responsible

This is for all those little kiddos who think that they are not being thought to be mature enough to handle responsibilities.

With power comes responsibilities. Most of us crave for power but just neglect the possible responsibilities that come bundled with them. Being a responsible person and being a leader are quite similar things. You must learn to say that its your fault even if it lies with your team. Its you who are responsible for your team. Taking family decisions is a great responsibility.

In greater aspect one may realize that responsibility means sacrifice and devotion. Sometimes you may need to have a cup of coffee that you hate to drink. You may have to sacrifice your education because your elder siblings need to have education. You need to starve to let your kids get their complete diet. You must learn to read mind and heart of the person in front of you. And the most important thing that knocks many people down it the feeling that the people for whom you did all those sacrifices turn against you.

Man himself creates the circumstances that he lives in. He chooses his own fate. You must be ready for all the things that may come in your way. Living for someone else and caring for others without being a nuisance and living as a social element is our primary responsibility.

The things mentioned overhead are just like a warm up when you get into the suit of a responsible person. There are lots of things that you need to be mentally prepared of. You may be responsible for an aircraft mission or for the financial condition of your country, you may be a legislator or a statesman, you would perform better only if you realize your responsibilities under that hat.

Some of our politicians can be adjudged to be irresponsible. Look at the way they throw away their own faults to their rivals. The way to be successful is to cut off all the possible ways of retreat and then heading for the battle. Looking for excuses is the prime factor that leads to failures. Responsible people should be humble enough to take responsibility of any good or bad results that come out of their experiments.

Being humble, respect towards others, sacrificing yourself and some self respect is the recipe that can buy you fame.

Remember that responsibility is the role that you need to play; forgetting all about yourself. The most important thing in life is to keep experimenting and trying new things. This is the only fool proof way to know your own capabilities.